How To Quit Watching Porn and Masturbating (+ some ranting)
divine revelations received by the author in the last 2 years (for MEN ONLY)
I know a lot of you might be struggling with pornography consumption, masturbation, and might even have tried leaving it and failed to do so completely.
And you probably are fed up of ruining your life and wasting your life doing it.
Well , Let me help you quit it like I did.
Listen carefully.
Porn is not the root problem of your life.
Yes it is a problematic issue in your life but it isn't the root problem of your life.
Porn usage is the symptom of a greater issue.
"A Lack of Purpose and Direction in Life"
—> Ahh man again with the purpose and shit eh Sharvil? I'm fed up of all these videos and books about purpose, tell me something new.
Give me a quick fix to my porn problem.
Chill Lil Bro!
There is no shortcut to life. No shortcut to anything in life.
No shortcut to success either.
Anyone who tells you otherwise is trying to sell you something.
Listen Up.
Purpose doesn't always have to mean a great humanitarian goal like saving the world.
It can be a simple goal.
It can be something as simple as an entrance exam or a sporting competition.
You see my friend, we are not mere animals.
We are the organisms closest to the gods, formed in the image of the gods.
We have a developed prefrontal cortex and high level consciousness.
Even dogs and cats have sex, have food , drink and sleep.
But we, we Humans, can't be satisfied with such basic things.
We are meant for greater things in life. For something greater than our carnal desires.
To the devout Hindus this might mean Moksha, for the Christians and Muslims it might mean getting a ticket to heaven , To the Sikhs and Buddhists it might be acting and living according to Dharma etc.
It doesn't even have to be something as hard or noble as that.
To the student it can mean an entrance exam, to the unemployed dude it can be the job interview.
To the parents- raising good children, to the businessmen- doing financially well in business.
It doesn't have to be a huge lofty ideal, start small.
Get a goal and devout yourself entirely to it.
The satisfaction you will get from pursuing the goals you set out for yourself will far outweigh the cheap, trashy pleasure porn, social media or video games will ever give you.
That is the key to quitting any addiction.
{How do I know this?
You might ask.
Well, having retained and kept myself chaste for quite a long while now, I can assure you that we men are not horny demons but just dudes who are bored as hell. We need something exciting and fun to do.}
It’s about having something better to do than to obliterate your penis.
You might default to the easier activities.
But you need to realise and internalise the FACT that excessive indulgence in porn , social media , drugs or anything shitty thing will murder your soul and cripple your body. (linked a study)
Keep indulging in these destructive habits and
You will never amount to anything in life and end up like everybody else.
—> End up like everybody else? Isn't that a good thing Sharvil?
Heck No! Everybody else? Everybody else is disgusting and repulsive.
Have you looked around you the type of men and women that exist around you.
Young boys who joke about disgusting pornography, whose lives amount to bat-shit nothing, their world revolves around ass and boobs and what anime or hentai to watch next.
Look at the young women- prostitutes, period.
Look at society around you, little babies are being r*ped these days. Like wtaf is this?
{Indians! Cmon guys, our ancestors are not just crying in the heavens but probably committing suicide repeatedly (even in the heavens) after seeing how their progeny have fallen.
Oh how badly have the mighty Indians fallen. From the greatest civilisation on planet Earth to a boiling shithole of people who keep quarrelling and hating on each other.}
Look at the adults, the people in charge, the influential people.
The Bollywood stars who won't hesitate to endorse smoking , drinking and the disgusting hookup culture for a few paise.
The insta influencers, the youtubers , the content creators.
Just look at what society has ended up becoming.
I do not want to play the usual dialogue of the matrix or say that fking george soros and the world economic forum are after you.
I'm sorry to say this but the matrix is not out there.
But right within you.
It is that little voice which tells you it is ok to masturbate, that little voice which tells you that you are weak or can't do something, that little voice which always makes you lose.
The matrix is that part of your brain which has no regards for the world or for your own well-being, it only cares to gain pleasure, whatever the means.
Corruption, deceit, debauchery, jealousy , hatred, suffering and all these things are so rampant because deep down we have all lost something.
Something very important, that people in power and people of influence should have told us but don’t.
IT IS A LACK OF SELF-CONTROL.
I don’t think social media companies are after us or something.
They are legally making money in a free economy. Period.
You are the dumbass for being used by them.
Yes fast food chains put chemicals in their food,
You are the dumbass who buys and eat their food.
The world is a free and fair place and throughout history has been so.
There have always been people and external powers which exploited other people for their gain or self-interest.
I say it is all fair.
And anyway , why do you expect any morality from anybody else.
You are the fool for expecting others to be good.
We the people, We society, have lost the ability to discern what is good from what is bad.
We have let anger, lust and other carnal desires cloud are rational minds, and hinder us from our great divine potential.
We as individuals have stopped using our pre-frontal cortexes and have instead started relying on our bodily impulses.
Feeling a bit hungry- go munch on some snacks,
feeling slightly horny- wank it out,
feeling angry- start screaming and shouting at others,
feeling sad- cry and listen to some soy-boy music,
jealous about another person- gossip about them,
feeling tired- go watch some netflix and then the next day gossip about some celebrity.
It isn’t overpopulation or the matrix that is the reason for the shitty state of the world or your life.
But a mass moral decline.
A decline of basic fucking intelligence.
The basic intelligence to know what is right and what is wrong, to know what must be done and what not.
—> SO SHARVIL! What do I do to gain this intelligence? How do I become invincible to sex urges.
Listen kiddo, getting a purpose and working towards it will not make you invincible, you will still be susceptible to natural sexual urges.
Let me tell you how you can slowly mangle your disgusting sexual nature and purify it and master it.
But remember.
The final choice remains in your own hands.
Nobody comes and wanks your dick off for you right! ( lmfao)
You do it on your own.
You waste your own time.
You are the one who watches pornography.
So remember that self-control must be exerted, discipline must be exerted by you and you alone.
The system I will provide you will only help you, it won’t do what must be done by you and you alone.
It won’t work on its own.
You need to use it for it to work.
I from henceforth want you to reject the world.
Yes , you heard me right
Shun the world and reject from now onwards.
—> What the heck do you mean Sharvil?
Chill !
What I am going to say doesn’t just apply to celibates/brahmacharis (semen retainers) or ascetics but to all human beings who want to amount to anything in this life.
Listen carefully.
Disclaimer: It might sound weird but it is a tactic that helped me. Also taught by great sages.
Shun and reject thoughts and people and images.
I mean it literally.
Do you know why you get horny?
Because you look at women and then fantasize about them mentally by using your imagination.
What I want you to do is, reject the images.
Reject imagining women!
The moment a hot chick pulls up in your imagination, imagine a big red cross popping out of nowhere and then verbally say REJECTED.
Any negative thought pulls up, SAY “REJECTED”.
“Rejected” because these impulses are beneath you my friend.
Also don’t look at women directly, seriously trust me bro, stop looking at women, except your momma ig.
Like seriously, when we men look at women we always try to check them out and rate them in our minds, I want you to avoid all such stimuli.
Images of women won’t form in your mind if the source material i.e the stimulus is absent.
That means not looking at women!
Avoid all direct eye contact to women, when you see a woman say “REJECTED” in your mind and look away.
Like cmon dude, you deserve way better than that instagram hoe in your class.
You deserve an actual woman who is smart and sensible and beautiful. Not some cheap whore!
And all the good women at your age are working/studying hard not dating and sleeping around.
—→ Man that shit is kinda weird, seems very antisocial.
Well it actually depends on the phase of life you are in. But I highly recommend most of you to do it.
Most of us have still not reached the peak quality of people we could be interacting with, especially women.
Personally speaking, I don’t see a point in relationships or dating women ( which is what usually happens when a male and female interact) in our teens and early 20’s.
Because we still amount to nothing at this age.
—> Wdym Sharvil?
Well women date upwards, always.
Women always date a dude smarter, stronger, richer and taller than them.
I have never seen a sane, rich and smart woman date some broke red-piller or a ugly, short drunkard.
Women always date men better than them in all objective areas where women and men can be compared.
Men date downwards but that is because women never date downwards.
A rich woman will never marry a pretty ass fuckboy pauper.
But a rich man will marry a young broke but attractive girl.
I might sound misogynistic but man Idgaf, the truth is truth.
Men look for very basic things in a woman, a man doesn’t want a super-model just a woman who is smart, good -looking and can probably cook and take care of his children.
But a woman has to make sure that the man who impregnates her is trustworthy and will accommodate her and her child. She has to make sure he is smarter than her and stronger than her so that he can protect her during her most vulnerable life phase- pregnancy.
It’s natural, its basic biology.
With all of that being said.
The chances of you encountering your smart, dreamy beauty queen, model like wife are extremely low when you are young compared to when you are older and richer.
{Yes you must be a social person during your college life etc, I’ll let that be a topic for another letter.}
The basic premise is that my boys, you don’t need women until a certain age and sex is bunch of bollocks which is being sold to you as a metric of success.
Yes having unlimited sexual access to women can be “associated” with success but even a broke dude on loans can fuck a load of hookers by paying for them.
I know society around you has convinced you that sex is important.
I say no!
Sex is overhyped and is similar to porn.
Sex is a cheat code for cheap pleasure.
We deceive our basic biology into thinking we have procreated.
Procreation and spreading our genes is what we are hardwired for.
What we are truly supposed to gain pleasure from is procreation.
Not sex.
It’s a scam , a cheap substitute,
Just the way porn is a scam for the real thing—-sex with women.
I would also like to present a few arguments in favour of retaining your seed and not ejaculating excessively:-
Elon Musk, Swami Vivekananda, Hitler, Stalin, Modi, Trump, Nikola Tesla, Einstein, Ramanujan, Shivaji Maharaj, Napoleon, Samrat Ashoka, Marie Curie, Jhansi ki Raani etc etc, are some examples of famous /influential men and women.(not all +ve)
I would like to ask you , what is the one thing common amongst them all?
They are all Humans.
Fair Enough.
You are very close to the answer though.
They are all Humans.
All of them are (most probably) sexually reproduced humans.
What that means is they all came from the balls of their father and were housed for 9 months in the womb of their mother.
They all came from the ball of their father. They came from the balls of a man.
And I kid you not, you hold the same immense power in YOUR BALLS.
Yes you heard me right.
You could if you wanted to tomorrow create the next Einstein, the next Hitler , the next Gandhi, the next Modi, the next Ramanujan, the next Trump, the next Marie Curie, the next Chhatrapati Shivaji Maharaj.
In your balls lies the power to will into existence another human being.
Another HUMAN BEING!
An organism with such a highly developed consciousness.
You have the power to temporarily become A GOD in your balls my boys.
Baby Batter!
And you think it that it is inconsequential to waste it.
Bullshit!
The Power to create a complex organism like a human being in within your balls mate.
It’s not the same as animals breeding, animals have a lower consciousness compared to us humans.
A human being is powerful as hell.
One single human being can change the course of this planet and the universe.
As a few near examples state above.
One must preserve his semen like one does precious metals and diamonds.
I’m not talking about the nutritional value of semen.
I’m talking about the energetic value of it.
The Power to will a being of Higher Consciousness into existence.
Think about it my friend.
Meditate deeply on this food for thought that I presented to you.
You will soon realise your stupidity.
And realise the value of semen.
If you want to amount to anything in life then reserve sex only for procreation my friend.
In summary.
- The world is a fucked up place.
But the world has always been a fucked up place throughout history.
But the modern age is either the easiest or the hardest time of all.
You choose.
- The world all around us is in a state of moral decline, everyone around us is petty, dumb and lacks basic self-control.
- Self-Control is like a muscle that must be exercised everyday by doing what needs to be done, not what your pussy mind tells you to do.
- Yes though, quitting pornography is not truly a daily thing.
I don’t want you to be obsessed about not fapping and retaining on a daily basis.
Being chaste is a lifestyle not a challenge.
-I want you to internalize/ carve it down on your forehead that porn and masturbation are trash and hurt you.
- just go cold turkey on Porn and Masturbation forever and never think about it ever again.
- Porn is not your problem. A lack of purpose is.
- Get some worthwhile goals to pursue, then you won’t have the urge to choke your chicken.
- Never forget the fact that porn is for losers.
-Porn and Masturbation is for sissies and cucks.
-Porn is for lesser men. Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise.
-Porn and Masturbation cripple the mind, body and soul of a man.
HOW TO KILL YOUR SEXUAL URGES
- Verbally say “REJECTED” to sexual imagery, negative thought and whatever you want to remove from your mind.
- Use the word “REJECTED” specifically because your carnal desires are BENEATH YOU.
- Don’t directly look at women. You don’t need to! ( avoid all imagery of women!)
- Read religious scriptures if possible.
- Fill your mind with positivity and strengthening thoughts, shun all negative thoughts and lutsful thoughts.
- To transmute aka use this energy, you must exercise daily and meditate if you can.
-THE MAIN MEANS OF DIRECTING THIS PENT UP SEXUAL ENERGY IS THE WORK THAT YOUR PURPOSE DEMANDS OF YOU. WORK SO HARD TOWARDS YOUR GOALS THAT YOU DON’T EVEN HAVE THE TIME TO THINK ABOUT WOMEN OR TO EVEN LOOK AT THEM OR TO EVEN HAVE A WANK.
- Whenever your mind gets to horny:-take a deep breath in and repeat the mantra “I’m not this body”
and then breathe out and say the mantra “I’m not even this mind”.
This way you will be able to detach and distance yourself from your occasional, natural sex urges, and not indulge in them.
(The following is an article on blocking porn sites. Just block all of that shit, you don’t need it. )
https://medium.com/publishous/how-to-block-pornographic-content-on-all-your-kids-devices-permanently-2555e63106b2?sk=a04c94a3b6de245e4a45623e4cde60e7 )
Also remember- Quitting pornography or masturbation will not magically open the gates to heavens but will surely close the gates to hell.
It is getting a purpose, a bunch of goals and pursuing them ,that will make the real change.
Even that will not be the end.
Being good, being strong, is a daily battle against ourselves.
It is daily that we are presented with choices.
We must consciously daily choose strength and reject weakness.
Choose empowering thoughts and actions, and reject weakness.
Remember Strength is GOOD, Weakness is EVIL.
Choose strength, choose power , choose all that is good.
Choose Greatness.
(Yes Semen retention has its great benefits unlike Nofap, as many of you might quit pornography but still indulge in casual sex, I want to remind you that
Semen Retention i.e Brahmacharya
is a sureshot way to become smarter, better and stronger in life.
Here’s a Telegram Channel I run on Semen Retention :- https://t.me/brahmacharyagang )
Until then "Arise, Awake and don't stop not till the goal is achieved"
Never forget that-
"You Can Do anything you Put Your Mind To.”
You my friend were born to be great.
Born to be a King.
Exercise your birth-right.
Now.
Today.
Everyday.
Is it a constant battle that must be won?
So be it.
If yall Ninjas aint quit pmo with this one then you guys done for.